12 Simple Tricks To Keep Yourself Motivated
1. Start now.
Tell yourself to start this moment. Not in the
evening and not tomorrow, right NOW.
2. Set a performance goal.
Setting a goal helps you find your way
forward. This comes in handy for various
things, such as, if you have a bunch of emails to
reply to, or laundry to do, or bills to pay. Setting
a goal will help you tackle all of this.
3. Make an if-then rule.
The if-then rule is very simple. Suppose you finish
a task that had been pending a while, treat
yourself. For minor tasks, you can get yourself
chocolates or a nice meal. For bigger tasks, you
can treat yourself with a vacation.
4. Don’t think about survival.
Everyone learns to survive sooner or later.
Sadly, we are so worried about making
enough money, or doing things the right
away, that we forget to look at the more
important things. Instead of survival, we
should motivate ourselves to become the best
version of ourselves, the best of everything. We
should aim at setting an example and nothing
less than that.
5. Rise above your insecurities.
Instead of feeling jealous about other
people’s successes, try and figure out the
reason behind it. There must be a story. They
would have developed great habits, worked hard
and made certain compromises to get where they
6. Get a routine.
Believe it or not, this habit makes a huge
difference. A routine can help you get your life on
track. It will keep you going. When you finally
have a routine to follow, focus on it and try to get
better at it every day.
7. Embrace discipline.
There are times when you’ll realise that
motivation isn’t the problem. Instead, being non-
Has it ever happened with you that you are
constantly inspired to work towards your goal,
but you can’t make time for it? This is where
discipline comes in the picture.
8. Keep realistic expectations from yourself.
Don’t add too many things on your to-do list.
DON’T give yourself improbable deadlines.
9. Stay away from toxic people.
Stay away from people who make you feel
terrible about yourself. Keep miles away from that
girl who cribs all the time. And stop talking to
that fellow who can never utter a nice word about
10. Understand the value of that ‘extra’ bit.
It is possible that you have both talent and
resources. You are working hard, but you’re
falling short because you are failing to take that
extra step. Think about it. Maybe you are just
that tiny step away.
11. Ask yourself – ‘ Do I want it bad enough?’
The answer to this question will tell you how far
you are willing to go to fulfil your dreams.
12. Stick notes.
You need to be constantly inspired. So stick
inspiring notes on your office table, or put
motivational wallpapers on your laptop. Every
time you feel bored, just look at it. It sounds silly
but these things actually help.
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How to Know It’s Real Love ??
The Word love is on the tip of the tongue when some couples start a
relationship, for real love a series of
conditions must be met. This article
shows how to differentiate real love,
false love, and infatuation. Love is an act of will, it requires two imperfect
people that will dedicate to each
other despite imperfections. True
love is not superficial, it can
recognize and acknowledge the
limitations of others, aimed at
building trust and dedication to
There are five actions love takes-
1. Positive and reciprocal affirmations
2. Spending time together 3. Gifts,
physical contact, and acts of interest
4. Trust and confidence 5. Fidelity
An individualistic search for your own satisfaction. Its something you
search for and do for your own
Often based on sexual pleasure, more than giving love.
The search for pleasure can become a chain that weighs a lot and can make someone a slave. In the end
sex doesn’t produce complete
satisfaction and must be replaced by
You become an object for the other
person, intimacy is synonymous with
You only live for the moment, don’t
want to think about the future, you
are unable to assume higher goals or family values.
Any physical relationship without
compromise is necessarily temporary,
it implies that you’re looking for
someone better in the meantime.
Falling in love has nothing to do with love in the sense that falling in love
is often a step towards love, not love
We often fall in love with what people represent for us, or to satisfy our
desires for company, intense
emotions, or protection at any given
time. Falling in love could be
interpreted as an expression or
projection of our own narcissism.
Often the more self-centered,
immature, or dissatisfied a person is,
the more amorous, more intense, and
their romances are usually brief. This
is the definitive sign, jumping from
one relationship to another. Passion
being basically a drug to prevent
mature and responsible relationships
and, ultimately, a way to escape from
Once infatuation ends, love can
begin. You can be deeply in love
with someone, once this idealization
passes away what you thought was
love will pass away, its not a
guarantee of the strength of a
relationship. In the end, the quality
and length of the relationship
depends on the affinity, emotional
compatibility, and psychological
maturation of each person.
This is a patient love, giving
tranquility and peace. This kind of
love knows when and how to wait
and enjoys building a life and ideals
Doesn’t stay in sensations, it looks
for truth behind them and deeper
Accompanied with maturation and
learning, following the natural path of
It assumes freedom to differentiate
between what is good for you and for
Doesn’t believe in drastic decisions
without thinking about
consequences. It enhances self-
control and self-esteem, always
looking toward the well-being of the
Based on communication, knowledge,
and mutual acceptance, it tends to
fidelity and exclusivity.
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43 THINGS A GIRL WISHED HER BOYFRIEND KNEW !!
1. When you break her heart, the pain never really
2. When she misses you, she’s hurting inside.
3. When she says it’s over, she still wants you to
4. When she walks away from you mad, follow
5. When she stares at your mouth, kiss her.
6. When she pushes or hits you, grab her tight &
don’t let her go.
7. When she starts cursing at you, kiss her and
tell her you love her.
8. When she ignores you, give her your attention.
9. When she pulls away, pull her back.
10. When you see her at her worst, tell her she’s
11. When you see her crying, just hold her and
don’t say a word.
12. When you see her walking, sneak up and hug
her waist from behind.
13. When she’s scared, protect her.
14. When she lays her head on your shoulder, tilt
her head up and kiss her.
15. When she steals your favourite jacket, let her
keep it and sleep with it for a night.
16. When she teases you, tease her back and
make her laugh.
17. When she doesn’t answer for a long time,
reassure her that everything is okay.
18. When she looks at you with doubt, back
yourself up with the truth.
19. When she says that she likes you, she really
does more than you could understand.
20. When she grabs your hands, hold hers and
play with her fingers.
21. When she bumps into you, bump into her
back and make her laugh.
22. When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and
23. When she looks at you in your eyes, don’t
look away until she does.
24. Stay on the phone with her even if she’s not
25. Don’t let her have the last word.
26. Don’t call her hot, but gorgeous or beautiful
is so much better.
27. Say you love her more than she could ever
28. Argue that she is the best girl ever.
29. When she’s mad, hug her tight and don’t let
30. When she says she’s OK, don’t believe it, talk
to her about it, because 10 yrs later she’ll still
31. Call her at 12:00am on special occasions to
tell her you love her.
32. Call her before you sleep and after you wake
33. Treat her like she’s all that matters to you.
34. Don’t ignore her when she’s out with you and
35. Stay up all night with her when she’s sick.
36. Watch her favorite movie with her or her
favorite show even if you think its stupid.
37. Let her into your world.
38. Let her wear your clothes.
39. When she’s bored and sad, hang out with her.
40. Let her know she’s important.
41. Kiss her in the pouring rain.
42. When she runs up at you crying, the first
thing you say is; “Who’s ass am I kicking today
43. After she reads this, she hopes one day you’d
read it too.
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DID YOU KNOW THE TYPE OF KISSES??
~ A QUICK KISS:
The quick kiss isn’t a romantic one but it’s great
for first dates. You do it with closed mouth and
touching the lips of your partner. Try not to make
this kiss last too little. It should be more than 3
seconds, and it can send messages such as: “I
like you but I don’t want to rush into this” or “I
had fun with you.”
~ A ROMANTIC KISS:
Is the one when you gently touch your partner’s
lips with your mouth slightly open. This kiss
should be slow and gentle and really romantic.
Passion is key element, without any passion, the
romantic kiss losses it’s meaning. If you have a
romantic kiss during the first date-that means
that you want to learn more about the person
you’re kissing. Couples that have been together
for a long time use this kiss to show that they
care for each other.
~ FRENCH KISS:
A French kiss is when you add some tongue
action during your romantic kiss. This kiss is
really passionate and it can certainly says, “I
want you.” This kiss is considered to be the most
erotic one and it leads to a more intimate
~ A KISS ON THE FOREHEAD:
The kiss on the forehead is soft and elegant.
When your partner kisses on the forehead, you
feel safe. This kind of kiss is also known as the
“Maternal Kiss” and it means: ” I care for you and
I don’t want to loose you.”
~ A KISS ON THE CHEEK:
A kiss on the cheek is a great way to show
someone you like them. It’s an ideal option for a
first date. If your date kisses you on the cheek
that means that your partner is polite and he
isn’t forcing anything, he simply wants you to
know he likes you.
~ A KISS ON THE NECK:
This type of kiss is used by couples that are
really close and in love. If your partner kisses you
on the neck, he wants to show you that he feels
wonderful with you and he’s passionate about
~ SPIDERMAN KISS:
This kiss got the name from the famous kissing
scene in the movie “Spiderman”. It’s the kiss
when your partner’s head is the opposite
direction of your head and it’s intimate because
you can feel your partner’s breath. It sends the
message: “I feel you so close so that I can
experiment anything with you.
Kissing is a magical way through which
we can show someone that we care about.
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How to Treat Your Husband Like a Man
1. Seek His Advice.
By involving your husband in decisions, you are showing him that you respect his opinions and decision-making skills. Ask him his opinions on home decisions. Give him a few options for the dinner menu. Show him you value his advice by occasionally asking for it. However, Smalley warns, “Don’t overdo it though, for it might indicate to your husband that you are becoming too dependent and uncreative. Rather, maintain a balance by looking for special opportunities to seek his opinions and advice. As you carefully evaluate his ideas, he sees you consider him valuable.”
2. Remember His Requests.
Sometimes just simply remembering a comment in passing by your husband, then following through with it later, will make him feel incredibly special. Think back to a time where you casually mentioned an item you wanted and your husband surprised you with it. You felt special because he not only listened to you, but he made the effort to meet your need. Your husband is no different — he will appreciate signs of caring as well. Smalley explains, “Some facts about human relationships are as predicable as the laws of nature…. no one can continually ignore considerate, loving actions. If you make your husband feel special, you increase his desire to do the same for you.”
3. Brag on Him.
Casually lift your husband up in the presence of other people. This is not to say that you should obnoxiously brag about him to the point of annoying other people or embarrassing your husband. But simple comments to others about something nice he did for you, taking interest in what he says in group conversations, or a sincere compliment will go a long way toward making your husband feel appreciated. And be sure to always praise your husband to your children.
4. Understand His Job.
Take an active interest in your husband’s career and his feelings toward it. Smalley explains, “Many men are frustrated with their jobs, feeling that no one really appreciates their worth or value, their talents and abilities. When you appreciate what your husband does, you may become his only hope for achieving genuine self-worth. Until he really believes he is worth something, he will have difficulty focusing his attention on the worth of others — including you.” Smalley warns not to ever belittle his job, its importance to him, or his daily work activities. Smalley says, “Nothing destroys a man’s self-esteem more than to hear his wife cutting down his efforts to support her.” So show interest in your husband’s world of work, support him in his struggles, discover what he does on a daily basis, find out which projects he enjoys and which ones he doesn’t, and discover how he interacts with his co-workers. Don’t bombard him with questions all at once, but over time get to know who he is in his work life. And make sure he knows that your questions are meant to show interest in his life, not to pry or to imply that he loafs on the job. If you notice that he is unhappy with his job, Smalley advises, “When a man feels unimportant because of his job, it tears away at the very heart of his being. Help him discover the value of what he does.”
5. Be Open-Minded.
Listen to your husband’s decisions. This is not blind obedience, but rather open-minded listening. Rather than stubbornly holding on to your own wishes and immediately shooting down his wishes, discipline yourself to withhold your reaction and let his ideas sink in before you respond. By showing your husband that you respect his wisdom and leadership, you will be communicating that he is valuable. It is difficult for many of us to practice sacrificial love, and it is all too easy to make sure our own needs are being met, but try to show your husband you love him by respecting his leadership.
6. Express Admiration Verbally.
Who would you rather spend time with — someone who never says thank you or acknowledges your efforts to please him or someone who is considerate and makes you feel special? The same goes for your husband. He’s seeking affirmation and verbal appreciation from you. Smalley advises “Don’t let two days pass without expressing appreciation for at least one thing your husband has said or done during those forty-eight hours.”
7. Express Admiration Nonverbally.
According to Smalley, studies on marital communication show that verbal communication only accounts for 7 percent of the total communication between a husband and wife. The rest is comprised of voice tone (38 percent), and facial expressions and body movement (55 percent). That means that only a small portion of your meaning is conveyed through your actual words — the majority of your communication is in how you say it. So as you communicate with your husband, show you admire and respect him by reflecting it in your tone of voice and your body language.
8. Support His Goals.
Keep an eye out for your husband’s personal goals. He may not openly state them to you, so pay attention to his comments and actions that may reflect his deep desires for his life and your family. Give him plenty of support as he pursues his goals — whether they are advancing within his career, pursuing a higher educational degree, or enjoying a hobby or sport. For example, even though you may not particularly enjoy the social functions through his job, attend the company dinners with him to show you support his career. Or if he is actively involved in sports, attend his games. Encourage him when he feels like giving up on his dreams, and praise him when he accomplishes his goals.
9. Seek His Forgiveness.
Sometimes it’s difficult to admit we are wrong. Whenever you wrong your husband, don’t avoid the situation or blow it off with a casual, “I’m sorry.” Through sincere apology, acknowledge how you wronged him and seek his forgiveness. The best outcome of conflict is the strengthening of your relationship, so make sure conflict ends peacefully, and not as an unresolved issue. Show you respect and admire your husband by seeking reconciliation with him.
10. Concluding Thoughts…
Sometimes your husband may annoy you, and sometimes he may offend you, but Smalley says, “admiration looks beyond what he does to who he is. It’s unconditional.” And because men gravitate toward those who admire them, you will not only be meeting a need of your husband’s, but you will be improving your relationship as well.
If You Love Someone… Then Don’t Hold Back Your Feelings…
There was a Boy ‘n a Girl,
They were best friends for years ‘n years,
They could Talk for hours on the Phone ‘n text each other for days,
When They were Together;
Not a single Sad Thought could cross their Minds,
everything was Great, But One Day;
The Boy did not Answer any Call or Reply to any Text for a Day,
The Girl was worried that something was Wrong..
at night She couldn’t Sleep.., She was sitting in her Room Crying,
‘n It was then that She Realized how much He Means to Her..?
The next Morning;
She woke Up from a Phone call.., It was the Boy..
Boy : Hey..,
Girl : Im so glad that you Called Me, What happened to you yesterday ??
Boy : I was Busy
[ The GIRL Understood that;
Something was Wrong but could not Ask]
Boy : You know..; We should Stop talking..!
Girl: What??.., But Why ??
Boy: I am Sorry, Bye..!
[He Disconnected the call, ‘n She Felt as If Somebody
had Slammed the door on Her face]
Everything else Flashed in Her Mind,
Cars running by Her..
Roof of some building..’n Sunset..
She couldn’t understand anything..
She started Feeling Lonely, Dejected, ‘n broken..:’(
That was the answer to everything! His words were pouncing on her..
Her heart wanted to jump out!
He was the One..! “Why..??”
She Screamed at the Top of her Voice;
Then She made up Her Mind to make a last Try to get Him Back..!
[She called Him Up]
Boy: Why are you calling Me?
Girl: I need to tell you Something..
Boy: Go Ahead.
Girl: I Just Wanted You to know one thing before we stopped talking!
Boy: Tell me..!
Girl: Are you All right?
[She broke off..!
She tried but may be he doesn’t really Care about Her,
She wasn’t His friend in the first Place…
Tears were slowly running Worst
She left the House with a Note..!
[5 hours later]
Phone Rang in the Boy’s Room,
It was the Girl’s Mum,
The girl was lying in the hospital, Got hit by a Car, 😥
The Boy rushed to the Hospital where She was.
She Opened Her Eyes with the Boy’s name..,
He took her Hand..
Boy: Im so Sorry Its all my fault..! But;
I promise when U get better I’ll make It up to You..
Girl: I wont get Better..
Boy: No..! No Don’t say that..
Girl: just tell me one thing Why did you do it?
Boy told her that He had a Heart problem ‘n
he did not want her to be worried;
‘n there was a risk that he could have Died..!
Boy: I did that because I…..I…..I Love you..?
Girl : I LOVE YOU TOO..?
‘n After That her heart Stopped Beating…:O
She Died..! 😥
The Boy died 10 mins later from a Heart Attack..:’(
He could not live with the thought that;
She died Because of Him.. 😥
If You Love Someone…;
Then Don’t Hold Back Your Feelings…
because Love is The Reason to Live..!
Love is Beautiful..? !
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At some point you will realize that you have done
too much for someone, that the only next possible
step to do is to leave them alone. Walk away.
It’s not like you’re giving up, it’s more like you
know when enough is enough.
You have to draw the line of determination from
What is truly yours will eventually be yours, and
what is not yours, no matter how hard you try, it
will never be yours.
While You Fight With Her,
Someone Else Writes To Her:
“Hi, You’re Beautiful”..
While You Don’t Call Her All The
SomeOne Else wOuld Give
Everything To Get Her Number..
While You Say “No” To Her In
SomeOne Else wOuld Give
Everything To Say
& While You Hurt Her, SomeOne
Else Is waiting For The Right
Time To Be with Her & Prove To
Her How Important She is To
ALWAYS TREAT HER RIGHT.